You may have thought your secret wish to write a children’s book or learn country dancing was silly and pushed it to the back recesses of your mind. It may be that you want to learn how to play the guitar, take a pottery class, or write your own screenplay. Most of us have something that we have always wanted to do, or have a talent for.
Maybe you daydream about hiking in the woods and sketching in a nature journal or maybe you have always wanted to learn Italian. Revisit the activities you enjoyed as a child — playing the flute, bike riding, canoeing, ice skating, skiing — all the things you used to love, but as an adult, never felt you had time for.
Is there something you’ve thought about doing, but never thought you’d be capable of trying? Whether it’s running a marathon, horseback riding, or becoming a clown, call on your courage and take the first step. Make the phone call, schedule the lesson, buy the supplies — whatever steps are required to convince your subconscious that you are serious about focusing on that goal. Stop making excuses!
There is no greater tragedy than to find yourself at the end of your life regretting that you never dared to explore your true passions. When you’re doing what you love, your work improves, you’re more productive, and you have more energy to direct toward other areas of your life. Pursuing what you enjoy inspires and renews you. It makes you feel alive.
[Excerpted from Bring It On! Women Embracing Midlife]
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I am so happy to have found the Path Partners website and this blog! Thank you for this wealth of valuable insight into women's mid-life journey. I am in the very midst of this passage and have been struggling with finding some firm footing in a life that no longer fits me. I always wanted to learn to ride a motorcycle and this spring I took a course and bought myself one! I don't have any idea where it will lead me but I had to follow the impulse. My husband has been extremely supportive and might even do the wame for himself. My animus is pretty happy right now!
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